In a small bowl, whisk together lime juice, fish sauce, and dissolved palm sugar until smooth and fully combined.
In a large bowl, gently combine crab meat, shallot, scallions, and red bell pepper.
Add the dressing gradually, gently folding to coat while keeping the crab in soft chunks.
Let the mixture rest for 5–8 minutes to absorb flavor.
Add cilantro, mint, and Thai basil just before serving, folding gently to combine.
Taste and adjust seasoning:
Add lime juice for more brightness
Add fish sauce for more salt/umami
Add a pinch of sugar if too sharp
Spoon the crab mixture into lettuce leaves.
Top with cucumber slices, shredded carrots, and a light sprinkle of crushed peanuts if using.
Finish with a squeeze of fresh lime and serve immediately.